darthcontusion:
I think what’s kind of a cute touch is that Lily tends to avoid using first person pronouns which comes off as just being cutesy at first, but once she comes out as trans it makes sense from a character standpoint too.
Since she was living with a father who wasn’t sure how to deal with his “masao” insisting she was “lily,” referring to herself in 3rd person becomes an objection to being misgendered. It also says that she’s not sure whether to call herself “watashi” (typically feminine) or “boku/ore” (typically masculine). She would probably feel uncomfortable using masculine first person pronouns but, as a child under the care of someone who didn’t quite get the whole trans thing, she might be more comfortable referring to herself with her “stage name” than with a feminine pronoun.
…the writers probably also wanted to dodge addressing whether or not the character considers herself a girl for as long as possible since respecting personal identity, insecurities, and gender performance could be slightly less contentious than getting into the nitty gritty aspects of gender identity. Like, there’s a slight difference between saying “lily hoshikawa is lily hoshikawa not masao go” and saying “lily hoshikawa is a girl.”
This isn’t me being critical, the implication is very very very clear that lily hoshikawa is a girl, or at least should unarguably be treated as such, and there’s no reason to raise the issue if the writers didn’t want to make a statement about trans issues in the first place. it’s just a thing i noticed that they were careful to avoid stating outright.